Did you ever wonder why most curriculum that is developed for spiritual growth (ie small group material) is typically 6-8 weeks in length? Ever wonder why the majority of curriculum embraced by churches is DVD based requiring no preparation for both the attendee and the leader?
Although I have not researched this specifically, my experience would tell me that there are two reasons: novelty and effort (or lack of). We continually demand new stimuli and we don’t want to work at it.
Discipleship does not embrace this. Yet you do need curriculum, something to take you where you want to go. You can make up your own or use something that already exists. And though there have been many curriculum options developed over the years, not all are created equal.
Over the past 8 years, I have chosen a book called “Discipleship Essentials” by Greg Ogden, a 25 week model that establishes the foundations for the disciple. I believe that I am on my 9th time through it. You might ask: Don’t I get bored with it? Not all. In fact, with each group I take through it, new questions come up and I see the material in new ways. And remember, my goal is to help people become disciples, to establish the basics in their lives, not to read the latest and greatest book.
Apart from the topics covered, why do I believe this curriculum is effective?
First, the length of 25 weeks allows for habits to actually be formed. Most groups of guys I meet with will typically “hit the wall” around weeks 6-8, the usual length of most curriculum developed. After this time the novelty wears off and we move into the zone of true discipline. Each guy has to ask themselves – am I in or not? You can liken this to any type of physical exercise regimen. Many people begin their membership in January, and by the end of February they’ve stopped, unwilling to do the hard work and as a result they never see the benefits.
Second, there is “homework”. At the very least, if a guy spends 15 minutes a day for 4 days of the week, they can easily accomplish the work. For most, even this little amount of investment in their relationship with God is a huge step, yet it is necessary. It is always exciting to see how, over time, many of the guys will go beyond the assigned work and begin to dig into other scriptures and readings that enhance their learning.
Third, scripture memory. I have already commented on this in a previous writing. Suffice it to say that this aspect must always be part of the discipling process. No questions. By the end of the particular curriculum that I have chosen to use, the guys will have memorized more than 25 sets of verses, and they always comment on the significant impact it has had on them personally and relationally. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Avoid including scripture memory at your peril.
There are other items I might insert from time to time into the process and other curriculum ideas that I use once this initial 25 week unit is completed, but I’ve chosen this to form the foundation. Interestingly, what I have also found is that once we’ve established some healthy patterns, everything else we do takes on a new energy, the guys just know what to do. One person I’ve met with for awhile is reading through the bible and simply wants to dialogue about what he is learning. He has developed the necessary habits, is self-motivated, and we can embrace the bible together each week. He also has his own group of guys that he is developing and will be a great living example with the habits that he has developed.
Find the curriculum that works for you, ensure that it develops the habits of a disciple, and move forward. However, don’t ever settle for mediocrity. Push through the novelty barriers and enjoy the fruit that comes from embracing the richness of discipleship.